Love magic: Is it black magic or White magic

Love magic can be considered white magic, black magic, or even gray magic. Even though magic its self has no negative or positive attributes associated with it, a spell can earn the title of black, white, or gray depending on its context.
For example:
 Black magic is considered any magic that consists of affecting ones will without their permission or causing harm to another being.
 White magic is any magic that affects your self or another person with their permission.
 Gray magic is any positive magic that affects a person without their permission but for the good of others or themselves.

Black magic usually consists of such spells as Hate spells, controlling spells, “The Evil Eye” spell, any spell that causes physical or emotional harm, or causes someone to do something that they would not normally do without magical manipulation, and so forth. Hopefully you get the general idea with the few examples I have given.
White magic is spells that persons give permission for such as healings, protections, to aid in overcoming addictions, and the pursuit of happiness.
Gray magic is were things become shady for example, a healing that does not have the permission of someone who needs the assistance, most binding spells; such as someone who binds a person so they can’t do harm. These spells typically don’t have the person’s permission to affect their will, but are commonly used to protect the greater good. It is usually positive spells performed for the benefit of others in a positive way, such as binding an abusive person. As you can see most spells can and will fall under this category when performed without a person’s consent.
Love magic is one of these types of magic that can fall under all three categories. Remember magic its self is non-specific because it is energy and therefore can become either negative or positive. Energy only conforms to the will of the practitioner doing the spell. If the person chooses to affect another’s will without their permission the energy they send out becomes negative, but the person received the energy in its pure form which was neither.
I have gotten a lot of requests in the past from new witches and wizards asking me if I could help them win back a loved one, who for some reason or another decided the relationship was no longer working for them. This type of love magic is considered black magic. As much as you are tempted to use this type of magic because of your current emotional state, you should refrain from this type of magic. It will only backfire in the end and cause you more misery then you are currently feeling.
I often recommend instead, doing a spell that is generalized, which means asking the god or goddess of your choice, the universe, or any deity you choose to follow, to send you your one true love. Not only is this kind of spell non-specific but it presents you with someone you can truly connect with and be happy with. This would be considered a spell that is white magic.
A gray love spell would be performing the above spell for an individual without their permission. Trying to help out a friend who may be depressed because they lost a loved one but do not believe in the use of magic do to there beliefs and you perform the spell anyway. This also usually occurs with healing spells as well, mostly because the practitioner is trying to help someone they care about but because of there beliefs do not want magic assistance. Gray magic is usually carried out with good intentions, unfortunately in most cases it will end up backfiring.
The spells that are karma safe are spells that are performed with the permission of the individual you desire to assist. Remember the three fold law: what you send out will return three times three. This is true, it may take awhile for you to feel the affects of this law, but it will happen and it will not be pleasant. It is not easy to clean your karma once it becomes polluted and it is a very long and complicated process if you decide to try and clean the slate.
I understand that the desire to win back a ex-boyfriend or ex-girlfriend is strong especially if it feels like your heart is breaking and it is causing you pain. Just remember that everything in this world happens for a reason, you may not understand the reason at the time of the event, but I promise it will present itself and you will usually become happier when it does. The Universe tries to help us along our path and if you open your hearts and listen to its guidance, your life will become filled with happiness and purpose.